Choosing a Urologist for Prostate Cancer: Essential Qualities and Tips
Choosing a doctor is an important next step after a prostate cancer diagnosis. But it can feel overwhelming if you do not know what to look for.
To get insight into finding a healthcare provider, we asked community members: “What qualities do you look for in a urologist?” See their responses.
Find a doctor who explains various treatment options
Community members commonly shared that your physician should not choose your treatment plan for you. It is important to find a urologist who explains the various options and gives you a chance to ask questions and think the options over. Too often, men regret finding out about a treatment after they already followed through with another treatment that had undesirable consequences.
“Ready to fully explain all options and make referrals.”
“Willing to spend time discussing them.”
“A good listener who thoroughly explains the options.”
A doctor who is respectful
Most men at the beginning of their prostate cancer journey do not know a lot about the disease. It is normal to feel overwhelmed and anxious. Finding a physician who has patience and speaks to you with respect can give you a sense of calm. A urologist who helpfully educates you on what is happening and explains new medical terms will be a valuable member of your team.
“Someone who treats you with respect and care.”
“Personable and caring.”
“Bedside manner is as important as professional experience.”
Treats me as an individual
Everyone’s body and circumstances are different. This means everyone responds to treatment differently. Treatments for prostate cancer can also have side effects, like incontinence or erectile dysfunction. Find a doctor who takes the time to learn about you and your unique health needs. And who treats you as a person, not a number.
“Treats the patient like an individual, not a problem to be processed or a statistical norm. For example, does not tell me impotence and incontinence after surgery will repair over time depending on age and health, but tells me what I, as a unique individual, am likely to expect at my age and with my existing health conditions.”
Clearly offers up-to-date information
As with any diagnosis, there can be new treatments and new findings happening during your journey. Some community members find it helpful to work with a healthcare provider who knows about recent studies or new treatments. One community member shared that he researched every urologist locally to see which ones were publishing research papers. This is one way to find out which physicians are committed to up-to-the-minute science.
“Up-to-date information and experience.”
“I research every doctor I have seen. I research where they did medical school, papers they published, and where they did residency. It is probably just me, but I find it important.”
Look for a urologist who does not rush to surgery
There are surgical options for prostate cancer, but other treatment options exist, too. Some individuals might also opt for active surveillance, radiation therapy, or other treatments.
Any treatment like surgery comes with risks and should be considered carefully. If your healthcare provider pushes you toward surgery but you think another option is a better fit, it might be time to ask around for another doctor.
“They have the rap of cutting first.”
“Non-parochial (have hammer, but not all problems are nails).”
Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences and advice for this story. We appreciate all your feedback and suggestions.
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