I have a few friends who have had prostate cancer and most of my closest friends are 70+. We are an irreverent bunch, which means humor is a constant in our conversations. Laughing at ourselves and our variations conditions is one way we maintain our sanity. Our Saturday morning coffee meetings are not for the faint of heart or the thin skinned. None of us is in denial of the ultimate reality, which is the title of Jim Morrison's autobiography: "No One Gets Out of Here Alive." Our favorite line, first spoken by a friend who practices Buddhism, is "We are all decaying on schedule." May not sound funny, but it always gets a laugh. Another good line, when we're talking about our health challenges, is "Whatever happened to who got lucky on Saturday night?" And, of course, for the hearing impaired, "Huh?" Will Jones Moderator