Sounds like a great way to get the word out, . You're a one man PSA PSA! Those one on one conversations make a big difference. Even though they might not be enthusiastic at the time, I find that it does soak in and come to top of mind once an appointment comes around. Interesting that wives are more receptive. Maybe having that distance helps, as well as perhaps being more often responsible for the family healthcare scheduling. Keep up the advocacy - things may slowly but surely change! - Nina, ProstateCancer.net Team