- Others will chime in with article references to help educate yourself. I have the following questions. PSA by itself doesn't mean a whole lot. The rate of PSA increase is telling. Would you please post your PSA history with dates as that would be helpful?
While I wouldn't be bothered by the delay in biopsy, I am very bothered by some of the statements that your urologist makes. In the "hands" of an experienced urologist, there is a lot to be learned from a DRE. He is correct to say that MRI and DRE are inconclusive but you learn something from both that makes any PCA diagnosis more accurate. If you have PCA, but it is early, a blind biopsy may very well miss the tumor(s). If what you have happens to be aggressive PCA, actually catching it early has a large impact on whether you progress to metastatic disease or not. An MRI can identify regions of interest to explore with a biopsy in what is called a fusion biopsy that overlays the MRI imaging with the live ultrasound that will guide additional samples at those areas of interest in addition to the grid samples that are also taken.
My suggestion is to find another urologist and accept the delays that this would entail. There are no guarantees with any of this but old school plain blind biopsy is not taking advantage of the latest developments. Others will chime in to suggest a perineal biopsy and perhaps even live MRI guidance as the latest and greatest. You may find it hard to find urologists who do this and in a timeline that isn't greatly expanded. Others will chime in on this with links to help with your education.
Bottom line, as with all healthcare, the best advocate for your health will always be you. Educate yourself here, and via reputable medical websites. I am not a physician and most people here are not as well. Validate thoughts and things you learn with a physician you trust. Everyone here learns from each other and I hope you pull up a chair, break out the popcorn and engage us with your experience.