It's 3 weeks since my prostatectomy. I've been taking Cialis and pumping for 2 weeks now. During the course of pumping I have an urge to climax, but I don't let myself. I'm happy thinking it's a good sign of things to come, but I'm also curious about whether or not it's advisable to go there at this point. I've searched all over the internet and there's not a lot of information that specifically addresses how long a man should wait after surgery. I did find something that said wait three or four weeks to have sexual activity. I saw another one that said at least 6 weeks. And I found another one that said there is no time limit, let it rip whenever you can.