If there's a prostate cancer support group (or even a cancer support group that may have few men with prostate cancer), that's an excellent place to get a referral. I hear many men who have had or are having a bad experience with their current oncologist. I go to two support groups (neither prostate cancer specific) and I recommended my oncologist to him as he was just having a horrible time with his oncologist. I saw him a few meetings later and he gave me a hug and then his first words to me were: "Doug, I went to your oncologist. She walks. On. Water!" I think she does too and I was so happy that he was so he was pleased with her. So number one, if you can, start with recommendations from men in local support group if you can.