I learned a lot —> that I had to: become a student of prostate cancer and take the time to learn all that I could, ask for referrals in all treatment modalities, ask for second opinions on all scans and images, not rush a treatment decision, keep my emotions and fears out of the treatment decision, advocate for myself, and share in the decision-making.
Advice I would give to others —> get PSA testing started early (starting at 45y-50y) and annually. Early detection leads to more options available to treat prostate cancer. For those already diagnosed —> get as much information as possible (beyond just PSA, PIRADS and Gleason) before making a treatment decision. There are many additional tests available to understand cancer aggressiveness.
When I was first diagnosed (in 2012), I wish I knew that the success rates of surgery vs radiation are statistically equivalent, and that side-effects and quality-of-life are often the treatment differentiators.