Lessons Learned From My Husband's Cancer That Helped Me Navigate My OwnAs we go through life, there are lessons for us at every junction, every turn, every corner. We learn from teachers, we learn from friends, we learn from experiences and... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments0 comments
Resolutions and Feeling EmpoweredI try to always select a word of the year and focus on that word throughout the year. And like a resolution, you can really decide to make changes, big... By Sue Franke2 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments0 comments
For caregivers who are now patientsHave others changed from the role of caregivers to care receiver? My cancer surgeries helped me understand my husband's sometimes reluctant attitude when I was his caregiver for prostate cancer...Reactions 0 reactions Comments0 replies
Caregiver Primer: Breathe, Learn, ShareWhen someone you love is diagnosed with cancer, it can be a big shock to both of you. Yes, that’s quite an understatement. As a caregiver for my husband with... By Sue Franke2 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments0 comments
The Patient, the Caregiver, and Responsibilities During Big EventsThe holidays bring a level of joy and excitement that we don't often experience the rest of the year. There’s the hustle and bustle of shopping for gifts, invitations to... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
Now I Get It: the Anxiety of Awaiting Test ResultsI’ve always anxiously waited with my husband as we watched for the latest blood test results to be posted showing whether his PSA was on the increase. We waited together... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments12 comments
Just Be KindWe’ve all spent time in doctors' waiting rooms, sometimes for only a few minutes and sometimes much longer. We may have been alone or we may have had the company... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
The Many Faces of a Partial PollyannaAm I a Pollyanna? According to Wikipedia, the Pollyanna principle is the tendency for people to remember pleasant things more accurately than unpleasant ones. A Pollyanna is illogically optimistic. It’s being... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments0 comments
The Important Role of our GenesI recently read several articles that discussed what percent of all cancers are inherited, passed down from members within the family structure. One article estimated that up to 10 percent... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
Challenges of a Caregiver: Taking Care of Loved Ones' Mental Health and NutritionMany articles have been written about being a caregiver. I’ll limit this article to addressing mental health and nutrition. My experiences are not all related to caregiving for a prostate... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments2 comments
The Benefits of MeditationLately, as of my writing this, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed with everything associated with cancer and cancer care. Being a caregiver for my husband due to prostate and bladder cancer... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments4 comments
Selecting Your PhysicianSelecting a surgeon or treating physician for a serious illness such as cancer can be a tough decision. Some decisions are made after careful research, while other decisions may be... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
Survivor's GuiltMost of us have experienced guilt at one time or another. Sometimes guilt is justified: when we do something wrong, when we didn’t do something that we should have, when... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
For caregivers who are now patientsJust wondering about others who have experienced being a caregiver for a cancer patient and are now a cancer patient as well. My husband has prostate cancer and had bladder...Reactions 0 reactions Comments2 repliesCaregiving
He Says, She SaysThey say there are two sides to every story. As a caregiver for my husband, a prostate cancer survivor for 14 years, I’ve witnessed our physical, mental and emotional challenges... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments0 comments
The Other Caregiver HeroesI’ve shared my thoughts on several occasions about being a caregiver. My husband still battles prostate and bladder cancer, and my oldest daughter is still fighting breast cancer. Being a... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
Words are PowerfulIt’s hard to know what to say to someone who has recently been diagnosed with cancer. I’ve heard so many comments that seem to be made without thought given to... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments4 comments
The Changing Faces of a CaregiverEveryone’s life is made of a multitude of emotions, reactions, feelings, and circumstances, but confronting a cancer battle as a caregiver brings a whole new direction to everything. To simplify... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments3 comments
Caring for the CaregiverI’ve been a caregiver for many years, starting with my husband 14 years ago when he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Then several years later he was treated for bladder cancer. More... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments5 comments
Moving OnHow do you move forward when cancer is part of your life, either as a patient or a caregiver? How do you set aside the disease to immerse mind, soul, and... By Sue Franke3 min readBookmark for laterReactions 0 reactions Comments7 comments