A couple months ago after a complete physical, my family doctor urged me to see a urologist as my PSA was around 17.. she said that number was alarming…. Had a prostrate exam and was told my prostrate was hard as a rock… then had a biopsy.. the results came back the other day… in each of the 10 samples the cancer levels were 96%, 92%, 94% and so on….a PET scan has been ordered for next week….. my urologist said with %’s that elevated, there is little doubt that the cancer has metastasized…. I’ve been having unexplained lower back pain for about 6 months now and I am concerned that the cancer has spread to my spine… My Dr. used words like…advanced…aggressive….. And I am literally terrified…. After doing some research on my own, I read that prostrate cancer that has spread to the bone in men have a life expectancy of 21 months on average. 14 months for cancer that invaded the liver…..that’s when I found this site…. I don’t know what to do or how to feel….If I’m going to be dead in 21 months, I’d just as soon go now and save my family the horrors of watching me get really I’ll. And there is NO way I will have me testicles removed… from what I have read and seen about Chemo-therapy, I think I’d rather avoid all that…. If I decide to forgo any treatment, can anyone tell me what a death from prostrate cancer entails and how long before the cancer starts to make me ill ??? I’m 64 with no history of cancer in my family….. Any comments will be greatly appreciated…