I'm 5 months and 2 weeks out and had nerve sparing. Sparing was a success as I have had spontaneous arousals in the morning, but not enough for intercourse without help of Rx. I have been religious with the VED therapy. All of these have involved urine leakage. I use a cotton ball in the VED to absorb. It was much worse before and seems better with each day. Occasional relapses...but it is improving. Don't know if that helps.